Self Portrait
Eva is not just a little independent, she is a lot independent. Recently she has been filled with “my turn” and “I’ll do it” and “No! Stop! It’s Eva’s turn”. As a parent, on the one hand you want to support and encourage your child’s own independence, but sometimes the “no negotiation policy” of a two-and-a-half year old makes for difficult parenting. For example when Eva insists on putting her shoes on the wrong feet, refusing to switch them and going out in public. Or when she snatches the camera from my hands and proceeds to take self-portraits while lying on the ground in the middle of King George Square! 

Self Portrait

Eva is not just a little independent, she is a lot independent. Recently she has been filled with “my turn” and “I’ll do it” and “No! Stop! It’s Eva’s turn”. As a parent, on the one hand you want to support and encourage your child’s own independence, but sometimes the “no negotiation policy” of a two-and-a-half year old makes for difficult parenting. For example when Eva insists on putting her shoes on the wrong feet, refusing to switch them and going out in public. Or when she snatches the camera from my hands and proceeds to take self-portraits while lying on the ground in the middle of King George Square! 

“A portrait of my child, once a week, every week, in 2013.”
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“Sun Kissed” 

“A portrait of my child, once a week, every week, in 2013.”

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“Sun Kissed” 

How I learned to stop worrying …

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… and accept commercial toys into my house.

When we have purchased toys, we have worked hard at favouring wooden toys and non merchandised toys. Of course, there have been exceptions here and there; the plastic farm animals are favourites as are the Loving Family doll sets from her grandparents. But there is something wholesome and nurturing in the stuffed cat and owl my best friend made for Eva, and the non-branded wooden dollhouse downstairs (that albeit looks ghetto as anything next to the picture-perfect Loving Family dolls).

But still, I had mostly held out against the merchandise. It was the line in the sand.

Buzz and Woody have been in our house for almost 2 weeks and the imaginary, complex play that has ensued has grudgingly overcome my initial misgivings. Eva often makes Johnny be Buzz—my imagination is apparently not up to scratch (though my rendition of Buzz singing ‘I’m a Little Teapot” is a fav)—and they go flying around the house rescuing each other from one sticky situation after another: trapped under the blanket, trapped under the pillow, trapped on top of the table, and being attacked by the purple snake.

But Eva is also starting to play more and more on her own. She has Buzz and Woody engage in long, involved conversations while hiding behind the bed planning their escape (again) from under the blanket. They sometimes raid the pirate ship and have on occasion squatted at the Loving Family household (much to the chagrin I imagine of that prissy looking mother).

It has been so much fun to watch that I don’t regret Santa bringing them in the least.

But that’s it. No more merchandised toys shamelessly marketed to little kids in this house. Un-uh. Mark my words.

Incidentally, the Kung Fu Panda (TM) band-aides aren’t covering up any actual injuries, they just make Eva feel better.

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What Eva Wore: Top: Lacey Lane (similar), Shorts: Crew Cuts, Shoes: Saltwater Sandals

Here I am on the last day of 2012 — 21 weeks pregnant.
I’m feeling much heavier and “fatter” at this point than what I did with Eva. A combination of the Summer heat and chasing after an active two-and-a-half year old has left me feeling exhausted on most days. I’m trying to take care of myself and rest more, but Eva often has other ideas! 
Poor second child. By this stage with Eva I had already started pregnancy yoga and was well read on various birthing plans. In fact if it weren’t for the exhaustion, growing belly and little baby kicks I wouldn’t know I was pregnant! 
Although since we found out we’re having a boy, it has begun to make it all seem real. I’ve been excitedly buying tiny baby clothes and imagining tiny newborn snuggles. We have been busy trying to agree on a name. Boys’ names are hard! We have a few ideas, but nothing seems to have “clicked”. Any ideas? 
After we got back from Melbourne we have been doing a massive cleaning — going room to room decluttering and reorganising. We’re also in the process of planning Eva’s “big girl” room as we will be converting her toddler bed back into the cot for the baby. It’s crazy to imagine that soon we’ll have a three-year-old daughter and a newborn son — I’ll be a mother of two!
Along with decluttering, I pulled out six large storage boxes of Eva’s baby clothes. Yet I was only able to fill a single box with “gender neutral” clothes for our baby boy, which now means I have a lot of clothes to sell. Eva has some beautiful dresses and lovely quality pieces, so it’s a little depressing to let them go. But since Johnny and I are certain that we only want to have two children, it would be silly of me to keep them all. I’ll post more about it once I work out the logistics — but so far I’ve photographed over 90 pieces!
As as you can image my indecisive mind is a little crazy trying to stay organised, make lots of decisions and at the same time it keeps reminding me to relax. Thankfully, I’m starting pregnancy yoga classes tonight Saturday morning!

Here I am on the last day of 2012 — 21 weeks pregnant.

I’m feeling much heavier and “fatter” at this point than what I did with Eva. A combination of the Summer heat and chasing after an active two-and-a-half year old has left me feeling exhausted on most days. I’m trying to take care of myself and rest more, but Eva often has other ideas! 

Poor second child. By this stage with Eva I had already started pregnancy yoga and was well read on various birthing plans. In fact if it weren’t for the exhaustion, growing belly and little baby kicks I wouldn’t know I was pregnant! 

Although since we found out we’re having a boy, it has begun to make it all seem real. I’ve been excitedly buying tiny baby clothes and imagining tiny newborn snuggles. We have been busy trying to agree on a name. Boys’ names are hard! We have a few ideas, but nothing seems to have “clicked”. Any ideas? 

After we got back from Melbourne we have been doing a massive cleaning — going room to room decluttering and reorganising. We’re also in the process of planning Eva’s “big girl” room as we will be converting her toddler bed back into the cot for the baby. It’s crazy to imagine that soon we’ll have a three-year-old daughter and a newborn son — I’ll be a mother of two!

Along with decluttering, I pulled out six large storage boxes of Eva’s baby clothes. Yet I was only able to fill a single box with “gender neutral” clothes for our baby boy, which now means I have a lot of clothes to sell. Eva has some beautiful dresses and lovely quality pieces, so it’s a little depressing to let them go. But since Johnny and I are certain that we only want to have two children, it would be silly of me to keep them all. I’ll post more about it once I work out the logistics — but so far I’ve photographed over 90 pieces!

As as you can image my indecisive mind is a little crazy trying to stay organised, make lots of decisions and at the same time it keeps reminding me to relax. Thankfully, I’m starting pregnancy yoga classes tonight Saturday morning!

It’s a….

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BOY!

For almost three years (!) I’ve kept this blog, Happiness is Eva, with the purpose of documenting my daughter’s childhood and my own journey as I stumble my way through parenthood. Basically, it is a modern baby book. However, at the beginning of 2012, I returned to work part-time. Knowing full well that I wouldn’t have the time to blog as much as I did while on maternity leave, the 366 Photo-a-Day Project was the perfect solution. It has forced me to make the time, to stop on those busy days and capture the essence of my daughter’s childhood. 

Sure, it has been challenging, after all I’m not a professional photographer. I’m simply a mum with an ever abounding love for her daughter and a point-and-shoot camera.

Aside from the obvious motivation and incentive to complete this project, I have to say that I feel I am becoming a better photographer because of it. I have become more critical and aware. In turn, this has also meant that I have often struggled to select one single image to represent a particular day. However, on those days I remind myself, that the project is not about capture a “perfect” image everyday, but rather creating a collection of shots to represent the year. 

This project became more challenging that I had initially imagined. There were days when I had to work late, days when the sun was going down and I had yet to take a single shot, or simply, days when I just didn’t want to pick up my camera. However, my stubbornness prevailed. I forced myself on days when I didn’t feel inspired (there were more than a few dud pictures along the way) or used one of the awesome pictures Sarah took during the times when our girls played.

Despite its challenges, I’m beyond happy with the results. I love looking through the archives and seeing the milestones, subtle changes, personality quirks and the essence of Eva as 366 days have gone by. And although I love many of the photographs I took — these would have to be some of my favourites: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10

So, was I crazy for attempting this project? Yes! Am I glad I did it? Yes! Would I do it again? No! Famous last words…

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“Wolf”
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Here we go again! So after completing the 366 Photo-a-Day Project, which I almost quit several times, I’ve now (stupidly?) decided to tackle a much easier project — a portrait a week. 
This project will allow me to once again capture the small changes and milestones of my daughter’s childhood, while not making me feel burdened to take or “create” a moment to photograph every single day. And ironically after completing my 366 Project, I finally bought that new camera I’ve been pining after! So I’m excited to put it to good use once it arrives in the next few weeks.
What does it mean for this blog? If you have been following for a while, you would have noticed that once I started the 366 Project and returned to work, I no longer had the time or motivation to continue regular blog posts. I’m hopeful that this will change and once again I’ll return to sharing more posts about learning at home, favourite things, what Eva wore, pregnancy and, of course, milestones and life with kids.
This year is going to be a big year: maternity leave, a new baby, a little girl turning three and an overseas trip — providing lots of changes and challenges, but a whole lot of joy and excitement!
I have a good feeling about 2013!

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“Wolf”

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Here we go again! So after completing the 366 Photo-a-Day Project, which I almost quit several times, I’ve now (stupidly?) decided to tackle a much easier project — a portrait a week

This project will allow me to once again capture the small changes and milestones of my daughter’s childhood, while not making me feel burdened to take or “create” a moment to photograph every single day. And ironically after completing my 366 Project, I finally bought that new camera I’ve been pining after! So I’m excited to put it to good use once it arrives in the next few weeks.

What does it mean for this blog? If you have been following for a while, you would have noticed that once I started the 366 Project and returned to work, I no longer had the time or motivation to continue regular blog posts. I’m hopeful that this will change and once again I’ll return to sharing more posts about learning at home, favourite things, what Eva wore, pregnancy and, of course, milestones and life with kids.

This year is going to be a big year: maternity leave, a new baby, a little girl turning three and an overseas trip — providing lots of changes and challenges, but a whole lot of joy and excitement!

I have a good feeling about 2013!

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December 31 — 9:37pm
“The End — Goodnight” 

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December 31 — 9:37pm

“The End — Goodnight” 

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December 20 — 11:46am

“Grown Up”

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December 28 — 12:52pm
“Melburn*”
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* A common mispronunciation of Melbourne.

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December 28 — 12:52pm

“Melburn*”

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* A common mispronunciation of Melbourne.

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